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When a Narcissist HATES You but They Won’t Leave; Try These 5 Steps for an Epic TAKEDOWN
They Though They Weren’t Going Anywhere, but the Old Order Changed
A comfy narc isn’t going anywhere. As long as their supply is secured, their feet are warm and their bellies are full not even a forklift truck would move them.
If you want them out of your house or your life you must make them uncomfortable enough to leave.
A comfortable narcissist will stay put even if they are listing off all the ways they hate you 24/7.
Mission: Uncomfortable
For a narcissist to want to leave, their supply and manipulation opportunities must be at an all-time low.
In order to achieve this, you will need to have what is best described as avoidant behaviour of the narcissist.
1. Silent Treatment
Disarms a narcissist because if you say nothing, they can’t manipulate anything.
This is key because you need to cut off the attention you are giving them as it is all they will ever need from anyone.
Ignoring them as though they don’t exist as you carry on with your day will certainly make a narcissist uncomfortable enough…
