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This Is the Weird Reason a Narcissist Thinks You STILL Love Them After All They’ve Put You Through
The Strange and Creepy Reason They Can’t Own What They’ve Done
A narcissist can only see your initial reaction be it hurt, betrayal or anger, but their delusion prevents them from seeing any real long-term consequences.
They can’t imagine that you aren’t going to love or trust them ever again as a result of what they have just put you through, or that distancing yourself is a normal response to what they have just done.
The concept of consequences is completely beyond their comprehension.
That is why they need to surround themselves with people who will not question their narrative and introduce them to the true costs of their actions.
From such people, they obtain validation that they are always in the right because if not, surely they would say something.
Instead, those same people are readily supporting the narcissist by coming against you — The only one who DOES see something wrong with this behaviour.
Therefore, we are looking at a complete aversion to consequences to the extent that a narcissist cannot even begin to comprehend how they…