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The Shocking Truth About the Narcissists Rage EXPOSED

The Frightening Reason Why the Narcissist Is So Angry and the Strange Reason Why It’s Not You

Honor Payne
2 min readDec 10, 2024
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You might have been led to believe that a narcissist’s rage was all your fault, but what if I told you that it’s not?

And not only is it not your fault, but it existed before you or anyone else, right at the beginning of the narcissist’s life.

The Source

The narcissist went through the same trauma as a child that you probably did.

The difference is that instead of emerging from it as a more empathetic person, the narcissist created shame because they believed they were deserving of the abuse.

The problem with shame is that it creates a huge amount of pure unadulterated rage.

This anger won’t go away as it is part of their complex trauma.

Now it lies buried and forgotten, abandoned by the narcissist as something they can’t deal with.

The Problem

The trouble with things that are hidden is that they don’t like to stay buried.

It’s the same with the narcissist’s rage, it has to find an outlet somewhere.

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Honor Payne
Honor Payne

Written by Honor Payne

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