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The 3 Crucial Signs That You Have Beaten the Narcissist
3 Signs You Have Become a Professional Vampire Slayer
Can you really tell if you have won against a narcissist? Absolutely! Here are three signs that prove without a shadow of a doubt that despite the odds, you overcame the darkness and you are healing.
You Stop Thinking That Their Emotional State Is Your Problem
Feelings are not reality; they are a temporary emotional state subject to constant change.
Therefore, it is not our responsibility to make anyone else feel better because as an adult, we are supposed to make ourselves feel better.
People with narcissism have arrested development which means that emotionally and psychologically, they never got to the point where they were able to develop this skill.
This leaves them completely unable to self-regulate, and they will always expect the people in their lives to do it for them.
The trouble is that they burden you with all their problems, they expect you to carry their load and your own, and despite all this, they still manage to weigh you down.
The result is that they prevent your growth and advancement in life because you have to neglect your…
