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EXPOSED: How to TAKE your Closure Back from the Narcissist

Take your Life Back and Start Living Again on your Own Terms, not Theirs

Honor Payne
4 min readJul 15, 2024
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Refusing to give you any closure after the relationship is over could be the cruellest tactic in the narcissist’s arsenal.

After all, how are you supposed to move on when you have no idea what on Earth just blew through your life leaving chaos and disruption in its wake?

Let’s explore how to move on without the narcissist’s consent and with no further details to give us any closure.

They Never Knew

Narcissists can never provide closure because they possess an inability to take responsibility for anything and the constant blame-shifting will never give you the answers you need.

On top of this, their poor memory is so bad that they have to make things up just so that they can fill in the gaps.

They can’t remember what they did, or what you did accurately when recalling an event, and they wouldn’t want to. If they did, it would lead to narcissistic collapse or mortification.

What they do, they do in delusion believing that they are someone else with beliefs contrary to reality.

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Honor Payne
Honor Payne

Written by Honor Payne

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