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Don’t Waste Your Pain. Use it to become Unshakeable
Use Adversity in Your Life as a Catalyst for Growth to Become Unstoppable
Life hurts. Reality slaps you in the face so hard sometimes you think you will never get up again. So how do you get up again?
In the dark, in the pit where you find yourself, in that familiar pit of fear you find yourself in a labyrinth. We must navigate it if we ever want to get out of the hell we find ourselves in. How do we get out without a map?
You have a map; you are the map. After pain and trauma our emotions and memories knot and tangle together, forming a mess in our minds that takes the form of something greater than it actually is.
Because our brains can only perceive what we know to be a threat, but it cannot factor in time.
Even if the event is long since passed, pain is a labyrinth. You must work towards it and through it if you want to untangle yourself and get out.
During this dark night of the soul, it is so important to deal with this.
Because emotional strength and resilience does not mean that you are emotionally dead, just emotionally controlled.
Emotional intelligence and mental strength are developed by how you deal with these…