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5 Secret Psychological Tricks Used by Very Successful People to be Confident All the Time
Learn How To Become Confident And Keep It That Way.
Valuing yourself and your time leads to self-acceptance and self-love — the secret is you can’t produce confidence without these ingredients.
Know Thyself
Reduce your insecurities to 10% of yourself or zero them entirely. Do this by knowing yourself; explore who you are, especially the things that you’re maybe not as good at as you’d like to be, such that it makes you feel insecure about yourself.
Address these issues one by one. Often the problem is caused by a gap in our knowledge about what is making us insecure.
Many people are really hard on themselves, forgetting that school doesn’t teach anyone how to look great, or how to be good at public speaking.
If you never learnt it, why do you think you should be an expert?
All of us fall into this trap because we judge ourselves, and beat ourselves relentlessly for our shortcomings.
What we must do instead is identify the knowledge gap with the information that is missing so that we can fix the problem and remedy the insecurity.
